Flickering Doom

Flickering doom is the temporary experience of one who oscillates (quickly alternates) between the possibility of being unable to avoid escaping hell and the (seeming) actuality of escaping hell. It is only an experience, not a reality. Now, advance knowledge of the possibility of this experience alone cannot prevent this experience from occurring. The only sure way of preventing it from occurring is advance knowledge of the possibility of the experience in combination with the valuing of absence of the experience more than enjoyment.  See also real doom.

Real Doom

Real doom is the experience of one who cannot escape hell.  It is only experienced by people in hell and by those who have rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning.  How many warnings only God knows.  Any person who has rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning, who then chooses to stop sinning, has a chance of being given an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that they will go to heaven when they die.  Any person who has not rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning, who then chooses to stop sinning, will be given an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that they will go to heaven when they die.  In the Bible in Acts 10, a man named “Cornelius” took advantage of an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that he would go to heaven when he died.

Sexual Doom

Sexual doom is the temporary experience of one who possibly cannot avoid escaping hellIt is only an experience, not a reality.  Now, advance knowledge of the possibility of this experience alone cannot prevent this experience from occurring.  The only sure way of preventing it from occurring is advance knowledge of the possibility of the experience in combination with the valuing of absence of the experience more than sexual enjoyment.  See also blind bulldozer.  See also real doom.

Sexual Guilt

Sexual guilt is guilt due to sexual activity.  60% of sexual guilt among the population of the world in general is unwarranted; that is, 60% of the time the population of the word in general has no reason to feel sexually guilty because of their sexual activity.  70% of the sexual activity that results in unwarranted sexual guilt is one of the two forms of masturbation – alextostive masturbation.  Alextostive masturbation occurs as a sexual escape valve, which is a chatatophic reflex.

Moral Shifting

Moral shifting is shifting in which one is aware of the moral character (righteous [sinless] or unrighteous [sinful]) of the abilities involved in the shifting.  However, the awareness is “co-use,” not “pre-use.”  That is, the awareness occurs during the shfiting, not before the shifting.  The timing of the awareness is critical because the timing determines whether or not one has responsibility and guilt or no responsibility and no guilt.  Since the awareness occurs during the shifting:

There is no responsibility and no guilt.

Now, why is there no responsibility and no guilt.  There is no responsibility and no guilt because:

There is only responsibility and guilt when one knows an act is wrong before one performs the act.

Mass Ignorance

Unfortunately, there is mass (almost universal) ignorance both in the world in general and among mental health professionals in particular with regard to the existence of certain mental phenomena.  As a result, people often incorrectly feel they have sinned when they have had an SEV (Sexual Escape Valve) experience.  We will be educating everyone about these mass ignorance mental phenomena as soon as possible.

Sexual Self-Control Principle #2:
Sexual Escape Valve

An escape valve is:

Something that allows one to relieve mental stress and tension in a harmless way.

A sexual escape value is:

Something that allows one to relieve mental sexual stress and tension in a harmless way.

Now, be careful.  This is kind of tricky.

A sexual escape valve is not something you do to relieve mental sexual stress and tension in a harmless way.  A sexual escape value is a gift.  A sexual escape valve never harms anyone, including oneself.  A sexual escape value does not require one to sin.  A sexual escape valve is a chatatophic reflex.

Sexual Myth #1: Use It or Lose It

Our first sexual myth is:

If you do not satisfy your sexual appetite, you will lose your sexual appetite.

Well, human beings are designed to procreate and, therefore, to experience sexual appetite.  This sexual appetite persists from birth to death.  However, if you abstain from satisfying your sexual appetite, you will decrease the frequency of sexual appetite but you will never eliminate sexual appetite permanently.

Sexual Reality Check

There are those who believe that they will never be sexually tempted.  Well, if this were true, it would still be true that 99.9999999999% of the human race cannot avoid sexual temptation.  Why is this?  Well, God has given us sexual appetite and there are plenty of sexual tempters in the world.  However, God has made a way of escape.  That is what our website is about.