Innocent assurance is absence of flickering doom. Innocent assurance is more important than enjoyment.
Monthly Archives: December 2015
Flickering Doom
Flickering doom is the temporary experience of one who oscillates (quickly alternates) between the possibility of being unable to avoid escaping hell and the (seeming) actuality of escaping hell. It is only an experience, not a reality. Now, advance knowledge of the possibility of this experience alone cannot prevent this experience from occurring. The only sure way of preventing it from occurring is advance knowledge of the possibility of the experience in combination with the valuing of absence of the experience more than enjoyment. See also real doom.
Sexual Assurance
Sexual assurance is absence of sexual doom. Sexual assurance is more important than sexual enjoyment.
Real Doom
Real doom is the experience of one who cannot escape hell. It is only experienced by people in hell and by those who have rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning. How many warnings only God knows. Any person who has rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning, who then chooses to stop sinning, has a chance of being given an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that they will go to heaven when they die. Any person who has not rejected repeated warnings by God to choose to stop sinning, who then chooses to stop sinning, will be given an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that they will go to heaven when they die. In the Bible in Acts 10, a man named “Cornelius” took advantage of an opportunity to obtain the promise from God that he would go to heaven when he died.
Sexual Doom
Sexual doom is the temporary experience of one who possibly cannot avoid escaping hell. It is only an experience, not a reality. Now, advance knowledge of the possibility of this experience alone cannot prevent this experience from occurring. The only sure way of preventing it from occurring is advance knowledge of the possibility of the experience in combination with the valuing of absence of the experience more than sexual enjoyment. See also blind bulldozer. See also real doom.
Blind Bulldozer
A blind bulldozer is something that breaks through sexual blindness and motivates one to stop their sexual activity. The only blind bulldozer that we have been able to document is sexual doom.
Sexual Blindness
Sexual blindness is the temporary narrowing of one’s ability to know that may occur during sexual exjoyment. One may temporarily only be able to know things related to their sexual enjoyment.
Sexual Guilt
Sexual guilt is guilt due to sexual activity. 60% of sexual guilt among the population of the world in general is unwarranted; that is, 60% of the time the population of the word in general has no reason to feel sexually guilty because of their sexual activity. 70% of the sexual activity that results in unwarranted sexual guilt is one of the two forms of masturbation – alextostive masturbation. Alextostive masturbation occurs as a sexual escape valve, which is a chatatophic reflex.
Righteousness and Knowledge
One’s knowledge is proportional to their righteousness; that is, the more righteous a person is the more knowledge they have. However, righteousness, of course, is not the only thing that determines how much knowledge one has.
Sin Versus Wrongdoing
Sin is failure to do the right thing whether or not one knows they are failing to do the right thing.
Wrongdoing is failure to do the right thing while knowing they are failing to do the right thing.
Moral Shifting
Moral shifting is shifting in which one is aware of the moral character (righteous [sinless] or unrighteous [sinful]) of the abilities involved in the shifting. However, the awareness is “co-use,” not “pre-use.” That is, the awareness occurs during the shfiting, not before the shifting. The timing of the awareness is critical because the timing determines whether or not one has responsibility and guilt or no responsibility and no guilt. Since the awareness occurs during the shifting:
There is no responsibility and no guilt.
Now, why is there no responsibility and no guilt. There is no responsibility and no guilt because:
There is only responsibility and guilt when one knows an act is wrong before one performs the act.
Shifting
Shifting is unchosen use of one of a set of conscious abilities.
Chatatophic Reflex
A chatatophic reflex is unchosen. It may involve “shifting,” which may be moral shifting. We explain shifting and moral shifting elsewhere on our website.
Mass Ignorance
Unfortunately, there is mass (almost universal) ignorance both in the world in general and among mental health professionals in particular with regard to the existence of certain mental phenomena. As a result, people often incorrectly feel they have sinned when they have had an SEV (Sexual Escape Valve) experience. We will be educating everyone about these mass ignorance mental phenomena as soon as possible.
Sexual Self-Control Principle #2:
Sexual Escape Valve
An escape valve is:
Something that allows one to relieve mental stress and tension in a harmless way.
A sexual escape value is:
Something that allows one to relieve mental sexual stress and tension in a harmless way.
Now, be careful. This is kind of tricky.
A sexual escape valve is not something you do to relieve mental sexual stress and tension in a harmless way. A sexual escape value is a gift. A sexual escape valve never harms anyone, including oneself. A sexual escape value does not require one to sin. A sexual escape valve is a chatatophic reflex.
Pleasure Priority
If the thing you value in life the most is pleasure, sexual or not sexual, you are more likely to commit sexual sin.
Teenage Sex
75% of teenage sex is due to poor adult leadership.
Sexual Myth #1: Use It or Lose It
Our first sexual myth is:
If you do not satisfy your sexual appetite, you will lose your sexual appetite.
Well, human beings are designed to procreate and, therefore, to experience sexual appetite. This sexual appetite persists from birth to death. However, if you abstain from satisfying your sexual appetite, you will decrease the frequency of sexual appetite but you will never eliminate sexual appetite permanently.
Sexual Reality Check
There are those who believe that they will never be sexually tempted. Well, if this were true, it would still be true that 99.9999999999% of the human race cannot avoid sexual temptation. Why is this? Well, God has given us sexual appetite and there are plenty of sexual tempters in the world. However, God has made a way of escape. That is what our website is about.
Sexual Winning
Avoidance of sexual sin is always possible for anyone who prepares themselves for the sexual temptation that is common in the world.
How Women Dress
The common argument from some women is that women should not have to change how they dress and that men should simply control themselves. That is almost true. What these women miss is that, while men must control themselves, these women are making life difficult or more difficult for men for no reason.
Sexual Self-Control Principle #1:
Avoidance
First, note that any one sexual self-control principle by itself is not necessarily enough to equip you to avoid sexual temptation and/or sexual sin. Second, we will start with principles that all normal adults know.
The Avoidance Principle is:
Avoid every source of temptation.
God and Sex
God works in different ways. Suffice it to say (it is enough to say) that reliance on God increases your odds of avoiding temptation and sin.
Sexual Self-Control
Sexual self-control is always possible for a person who intends to do the right thing and is fully informed in the principles of sexual self-control. A large percentage of the world’s population is not fully informed in the principles of sexual self-control.
Sexual Curiosity
Sexual curiosity is the desire to know something of a sexual nature. Sexual curiosity is not a sin. However, satisfying sexual curiosity can be a sin. Satisfying sexual curiosity is a sin when you know that it might or will involve temptation.
Sex Outside of Marriage: Suicide
The following is, separately, from UPAX and RealiLty Rules:
People who have sex outside of marriage commit suicide one hundred thousand times more often than married people.
Sex Outside of Marriage: Disease
The following is, separately, from UPAX and RealiLty Rules:
People who have sex outside of marriage contract STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) one thousand times more often than married people.
Sex Outside of Marriage
The following is, separately, from UPAX and RealiLty Rules:
People who have sex outside of marriage have ten times more “post-sex” problems of all types than married people.
Implicit Sin
Implicit sin is sin that is an implicit choice.
Explicit Sin
Explicit sin is sin that is an explicit choice.