Is God Stronger Than Sex?

Is God stronger than sex?  This is, of course, an interesting question.  First, yes, God is stronger than sex.  However, God has established natural laws; for example, the law of gravity and the laws of thermodynamics (if you drop something, it falls to the ground; if you stop eating, you eventually die).  God virtually always enforces his natural laws.

Now, God has established natural laws that govern human sexuality.  Some of these laws are physical, some are psychological.  One of the psychological laws is the “Law of Sexual Disinhibition,” which we can also call the “Law of Sexual Stupidity.”  The “Law of Sexual Disinhibition” states:

If a person is surprised with a physical, sexual interaction, it is possible for them to suddenly lose the ability to care about doing what is right in a specific way.

In plain English, if one suddenly experiences an unexpected, physical, sexual interaction with a person with whom it is a sin to have such sexual interaction, whether voluntarily or involuntarily, they may be unable to care about refraining from other sinful, sexual activity that they suddenly desire to engage in.  This is why, in the Bible, in Genesis 39:12, Joseph fled a woman who had grabbed him by his coat in an effort to seduce him, leaving his coat in her hands as he fled.

How To Stop Masturbating (Major Update)

Definition of Masturbation

Masturbation is physical, sexual self-stimulation involving physical and/or mental “pornography” (any partially and/or fully nude image or images) of anyone other than your spouse (wife or husband).

Human Male Biology

Apart from any kind of sexual experience, the male body expels a measure of stored “seed” periodically during urination. Sexual need in the male does not arise from excessive “seed.”

How To Prevent Masturbation

1. Contain (suppress) your sexual desire.
2. Do not use pornography.
3. Eliminate sexually stimulating experience, which varies from person to person and over time.
4. Minimize (reduce) sexually stimulating experience.
5. Pursue a spouse (wife or husband).

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Residual Masturbation

Residual masturbation is masturbation that occurs while a person is seeking to prevent their masturbation (see “How To Prevent Masturbation” section above). God deals with this type of masturbation differently than other masturbation. See the remaining sections below for more information about residual masturbation.

What God Does

1. There is a difference between guilt and blame. Guilt says you did wrong. Blame says you will be chastised and/or punished for doing wrong.
2. Masturbation is always wrong. You will always feel guilty sometime after the masturbation (unless you have desensitized your conscience regarding masturbation).

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3. Masturbation does not always bring blame. You will not always be chastised and/or punished for masturbation. If you are seeking to avoid masturbation and you masturbate, your masturbation (residual masturbation) will not bring blame. If you are seeking to avoid masturbation and you masturbate, you will not be chastised and/or punished for your masturbation (residual masturbation).

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Why God Does Not Chastise Or Punish You For Your Residual Masturbation

Residual masturbation does not spring from choice, which can be implicit or explicit. It springs from a force or forces (psy-latitude forces, not psy-anarchy forces) at work in you. Without choice, implicit or explicit, there is no blame (blame results in chastisement and/or punishment), though there is still guilt. Note that the forces mentioned above can never make you do anything that, directly and/or indirectly, embarrasses and/or harms yourself and/or another person or persons.

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Why God Allows Your Residual Masturbation

God made human beings with the drive to build families. Therefore, he does not fully suppress this drive. If he did, the human race would have to die out.

Is Sexual Pleasure The Strongest Pleasure?

It will shock you to learn that sexual pleausre is not the strongest pleasure a human being can experience.  The strongest pleasure a human being can experience is totally nonsexual.  The strongest pleasure a human being can experience is olimincaelis (pronounced “oh-lim-in-kay-liss”).  See Dr. Michael Bisconti’s free book Olimincaelis:

Olimincaelis

Sexual Craving Causes Temporary Mental Gullibility

Our Institute of Human Sexuality has just completed a 50-year study of human sexuality encompassing (including) every race, nationality, and country on earth. The study surveyed and tracked a million people for 50 years. One major finding is:

Sexual craving causes temporary mental gullibility.

A craving is a powerful desire for something. A sexual craving is a powerful desire for sexual interaction. Gullibility is the state of one who can be persuaded by false reasoning to believe something that is not true. Temporary mental gullibility is the state of one who can be persuaded by their own false reasoning to believe something that is not true. Here is an example of fallacious (false) reasoning by a person in a state of temporary mental gullibility:

  1. Choices are mental images. (This is a falsehood.)
  2. If I have no mental images, I cannot choose. (This is a falsehood.)
  3. If I cannot choose, I cannot deliberately sin. (This is an absurdity [a truth based on a falsehood].)
  4. I have no mental images. (This can be true.)
  5. Therefore, I cannot commit sexual sin. (This is false even though it is logical.)
  6. Therefore, I am free to try to engage in any sexual activity I want. (This is false even though it is logical.)

We see in our example above that the person comes to a conclusion that can result in sinful, sexual activity. Remember, only sex between a man and a woman who are married is approved by God. This is the tradition of the human race, encompasses the biological drive of the human race, encompasses principles of psychiatry, and encompasses one conclusion of our 50-year study but, most important, this is what the Bible teaches.

The main lesson to take away from this article is:

Never try to justify (reason to a conclusion that an act would not be a sin) a sexual activity while you are in a state of sexual craving.

Is The Mind Governed By The Laws Of Physics?

Is the mind governed by the laws of physics?  No, of course not.  The mind is governed by the laws of the psyche, which were established by God.  For example, let us say there are two chairs in front of you and one is red and one is blue.  If we ask you to draw a picture of the blue chair, you recognize the blueness of the blue chair then draw a picture of  the blue chair.

Now, with the mind, apart from imaginations, a person cannot draw a picture of anything that occurs in their mind.  For example, let us say that you think your full name.  If we ask you to draw a picture of the thought of your last name, you draw a picture of your last name.  Now, what is it about the thought of your last name that tells you it is your last name?  The answer is nothing.  How, then, do  you know a thought of your last name is a thought of your last name?  You know this by assignmettism.  Assignmettism is an identity assigned by your unconscious mind (your unconscious mind was created by God).

Now, the unconscious mind does not consciously communicate with you.  How, then, does the unconscious mind teach you the identity of a given thought?  The answer is that the unconscious mind does not teach you the identity of a given thought.  Rather, the unconscious mind “injects” (note quotes; that is, this is functional, not literal, language) the knowledge of the identity of a given thought then enforces the knowledge of the identity of the thought.

Is Sex The Most Powerful Drive In A Human Being?

Before we answer the question, you must understand some things about drives (desires, emotions, etc.). Drives are contextually dependent. What does that mean? A context is the situation in which one finds oneself in the present, including location, whether or not one has eaten, whether or not one has slept, etc., etc. An example of contextual dependence is your possessing a drive to eat because you have not eaten.

Now, drives are also contextually prioritized. This means that a drive can be suppressed by your psyche because of another drive, in a given context (situation). For example, if you have a drive to eat and a drive to sleep at the same time and you haven’t slept for 48 hours, your drive to eat will probably be suppressed and you will go to sleep.

So, what is the most powerful drive in a human being? If you have multiple drives at the same time, the most powerful drive will be the drive that your situation gives power. For example, whenever there are famines and people are starving, the drive for sex will be suppressed and their drive to seek food will be more powerful.

One final note, a human being is not a puppet. Drives do not totally control us. They merely pressure us to go in certain directions. You have free will and, in most situations, you can choose what you will do whether or not it is what your drives want you to do. Note that you should avoid situations that will allow one or more drives to become more powerful than you.